Archive for October, 2011

We Treated

October 31, 2011

Oh mom guilt. Severe mom guilt. Ian was much better today, but not 100%, and I’m still not 100%, so we missed all the Halloween festivities over the weekend, and on the day itself, Ian’s very first Halloween, I thought the highlight would be Skyping with the grandparents in costume.

We walked to Whole Foods at dusk and saw many big and small kiddos in costume and I started to get sad (why didn’t I dress him up even just to go to Whole Foods? Bad mommy). I saw a two year-old little girl trick-or-treating with her nanny and I wanted to throw myself on the ground and sob. I got this picture from Bodhi’s mom and questioned my thinking on just about anything.

Bodhi as baby Krishna. I die of cuteness.

Then dad called. He was going to be home early! I said, let’s dress him up and take him out. We went to two houses. I didn’t have to cry it out. It was a smashing success!

Let's stay up past our bedtime and collect candy!

Here he is with his booty. He got Gummy Bears, pretzels (fail), Whoppers, and Skittles. He liked the Whoppers best. Smart boy. Now mom’s enjoying them in a sundae cuz, you know, it’s Monday.

 

Height & Weight & Rage Against The Machine

October 28, 2011

I love how I have this blog and I pretty much document Ian’s every move, yet I often forget to mention the basic stats, like height and weight. Well, we finally went to the doctor, and here’s the stats:  On October 27, 2011, at just about 10 months old, Ian is 20 pounds, and 29 inches long.

Ta da! He’s growing, but we knew that.

So we’re back to square one with pediatricians. I didn’t like the first one, loved the second one, second one left the office to pursue private practice (read: out of network for insurance), saw third doctor in same office, didn’t like her. She didn’t even shake my hand or ask what my name was.

Ah the good old insurance cycle. We have insurance because God forbid someone gets cancer or gets hit by a beer truck. We pay $700/month in premiums alone for the three of us. Now, we’re not really doctor goers. We take no medication. We kind of think doctors are bullshit, and the doctors we do like (the crunchier, holistic, call you by name, take their time and generally seem to give a fuck about us type) don’t take insurance. We paid $6,000 out of pocket to have a home birth, and I would do it again in a heartbeat, but I cannot express the rage I feel around health insurance.

Once again, we’ve gotten that dreaded packet in the mail from Blue Cross, telling us our costs are increasing and our benefits are decreasing. Wasn’t this supposed to be getting better? The rebel in me wants to give Anthem the finger and sock all that premium money into a health savings account and go to crunchy doctors, but since I’ve grown two neck tumors I don’t know if that would be the wisest choice.

Anywho. We all have colds and might miss all the Halloween festivities, much to my horror (and after all of Aunt Sharyn’s hard work). FML.

Guess I'll have to show off my Pascal costume for Thanksgiving. And Christmas. And my first birthday.

Onto happier news. Ian loves cheese. Video coming soon.

Walking walking walking

October 26, 2011

I think Ian’s getting another cold. Wha? We haven’t even been around any humans hardly. I hope this isn’t a bad one, and I’m kicking myself for not putting the humidifier in his room, but I’m not about to go in there and risk waking him.

Fingers crossed he sleeps through the night, especially since dad’s not coming home ’til morning, and then he will be a basket case because he will have been working for 24 hours straight. That better be one dope trailer.

What do we do when we are in no play date quarantine land? We walk. A lot.

Jammies on so we can do the dinner/teeth brush/diaper change/story/nurse/sleep routine once we get home.

 

Talking to the plants.

 

Patiently waiting.

 

Or not.

 

Our courtyard at sunset.

 

Our peace sign that's been up since last Christmas. Yea, had a New Year's Baby and didn't take down all the holiday decor...maybe next year.

 

Walking in the city. Not so pretty.

 

Ghosts having a seance to call in their friends. How spiritual.

 

One of my favorite houses to walk by. Think it's the red door, or the saint hanging on the left. I'm not catholic, yet I find it deeply comforting (probably cuz I'm not catholic).

 

The rare empty sidewalk. What I live for. I'm such a loner.

 

The kind of driveway a Midwesterner cringes at. Cobbled with a huge incline. Nightmare for snow and ice.

 

Thanks for all the fresh air, mama!

 

All this walking's stimulated my appetite. Let's go have some lamb stew! Okay.

Ian & Eliseo. Then & Now.

October 25, 2011

2 1/2 months old. Look at those little old men looking at us like, "What the?"

 

9 1/2 months old. Standing and smiling and giggling with little personalities and everything.

 

We can only marvel.

 

We met Eliseo’s mom and dad at our birth class, and have completely bonded. The class was wonderful in terms of information and guidance, but the best part is leaving with a group of people you know and trust who are going through the exact same life changing event you are, at the same time. It really is priceless. I think every mama-to-be should invest in a good birth class!

Mobile Baby Blues

October 24, 2011

There is the newborn; I Only Sleep When The Baby Sleeps, Except Not Really Because I Feel Compelled To Do Things Like Pee, Shower, Eat, And Fold Shit Exhaustion. Then there’s the Baby’s Mobile And I Can’t Baby-Proof The World Exhaustion.

Because I’m currently in the second category, I’m going to say it’s harder, but I’m sure in the end they’re equally intense. And as the days progress, he’s getting less happy about being toddled from crib to car seat to high chair to sling. He wants to be FREEEEEEEE! I don’t blame ‘em. He’s also starting to realize there is life on the other side of the baby gates and behind closed doors and on table tops. “I WANT INNNNNNNNNNNNNN” screams his little body on the tippiest of tip toes.

I took Ian to a meeting at a friend’s house last night for one hour, and I felt like I’d had a full body workout. Entering into a new room, my eyes dart from the pointy table to the open fireplace to the LIT candle on a low table to the dog hair I knew he’d be ingesting. And no matter how many times people say I am welcome to bring the baby, I don’t believe them. That’s like saying you welcome a tornado to pick up your house and put it back down in relatively the same condition.

We’ll definitely be home for the holidays this year.

Play dates at my house are much easier on my mom. Auntie Katie is distracting me with Gumby so she can put a headband on me.

 

My 80's workout gear is complete.

 

Wha?

 

Just so you know, anything you put on me ends up in my mouth. Yesterday, an old lady gave me her bracelet to play with, but she didn't want me to put it in my mouth. Um, yea. I'll get right on that.

Modern Day Norman Rockwell

October 23, 2011

 

I love everything about this picture. Mama rocking the double pump under a swaddle while feeding her newborn some of the good stuff. Her new husband entertaining a bigger babe and puppy, all in the family bed. With Gumby.

It doesn’t get better than this.


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